How to get fired

Today I had a conversation with a client who was being fired for the very first time.

(First off, credit where credit is due: As a company that’s been around for over a decade, it’s incredibly impressive that this is the first time it’s happened.)

The short story: Despite doing an excellent job on recent projects, their customer had fallen on hard times and decided to switch to a lower-cost provider mid-engagement.

Not awesome.

But also, not the end of the world.

Here was the real problem:

Because no client had ever ended a contract early before,

My client wasn’t really sure how to stop working.

Here’s what I told them:

> Have a Playbook

When emotions are high, systems help.

Build a simple offboarding checklist and email templates for next time.

That way, you’re not scrambling mid-goodbye while also trying not to take it personally.

Even better - automate it.

Create a standard offboarding sequence: final steps, thank-you message, file transfers, and survey links.

Treat offboarding with the same care as onboarding.

It’s part of the customer experience.

> Be Incredibly Professional

How you leave matters.

  • Say thank you

  • Show empathy & understanding

  • Provide clean, professional written communication

  • Be transparent up front on how the exit process will happen

  • Be the calmest person in the room

People remember exits.

Being gracious and organized increases your odds of getting a future referral (or even a boomerang).

...But also > Lock Things Down

When engagements end, stakes can rise.

So does the likelihood of misunderstandings, ghosting on payments, angsty actions, or unhelpful surprises.

You’re not being paranoid; you’re being prepared.

  • Re-familiarize yourself with your contract and obligations

  • Collect and save clear documentation of the work done to date, especially pertaining to you satisfying your end of the bargain

  • Confirm final payments are in-hand (or get specific on when they will be)

  • Hold leverage until payment clears (eg. final deliverables, releases, ownership, etc.)

  • Revoke access of things that could be stolen (your IP, tools, documents, etc)

  • Actually stop work. Any further time or investment in the project may not be compensated

> Update Your Termination Clause

My client did have a termination clause, but it wasn’t detailed or actionable enough.

In the heat of the moment, they didn’t feel confident using it.

Use every exit as a prompt to refine your contract language:

  • Is your notice period and payout structure clear?

  • Is it compatible with what you're delivering, especially if it ends unexpectedly?

  • Do you define final deliverables or what happens to in-progress work?

  • Is the clause helpful - not just protective?

Good contracts don’t just shield you - they guide you

And set expectations up front with your customer.

Breakups happen. Even when you do everything right.

It doesn’t mean you failed;

It means you’re running a real business.

Exits aren’t the exception,

They’re just part of the job.

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